e) Quiting Job That You Don’t Like: Some people choose their dream job and for them, everything is clear, develop an interest, get a relevant degree, cultivate expertise, and climb to the top of the ladder. These people are very lucky. The rest of us still don’t determine what we want. This is not bad thing actualy. Maybe you have diverse interests. Maybe you never really thought about it. Or maybe (especially if you’re a web junkie like me) your ideal career didn’t exist 5 years ago.
Do you have a job or a career? This question is very importan for the begining. Because there is difference between job and career. A job is not thing that be committed with passion. A job is just work. A career is your identity. It is is inseparable from who you are and who you want to be. A person who has career live with her/his dream. To choose a career and quiting job we go step by step.
1. Follow Passion: For someone who quit her/his job it is easy to feel powerless. Everyone has responsibility and expenses. There are two questions in this step. One is How do you quit your job and start your career if you don’t know what it is? And the other question is How do you quit your job and start your career if you probably aren’t qualified anyways? The first step is answering first question by following your passion. Not to say that if you like to read fiction you should become a novelist, or a painter if you admire Van Gogh. It’s important to be practical and find a career that is both personally satisfying and valuable to others. The key is finding place where your passions and aptitudes intersect with valuable labor. For this i recommend research. Read books, search internet, watch documentary programs on tv. Have conversations with people that have career and already have a passion. For every passion (art, science, sports, nature, etc.) there are thousands of careers in close proximity. The point most people miss is that career opportunities lie, not in indulging the passion itself, but in bringing it to others.Do you love art? Maybe a career in design is right for you. Love talking to new people? Maybe you’d be great in sales. There’s a place where what you love to do intersects what you’re great at — that’s your ideal career.
2. Building a Resume and Network: The next step is improve yourself for your job and find new people in your industry. The only way to improve yourself about your career is starting as fast as you can. Don’t let inexperience or shyness hold you back. Creating a body of work goes hand in hand with building a network. Your hard work is not valuable without people that you can share. The web is an amazing place to find and be found by potential colleagues and employers.
3. Time to Leap: Strangely, quitting a job you hate may be a difficult decision. Even when we aren’t happy, we get comfortable and resistant to change. Don’t let fear keep you in a job that’s just OK because the stability is nice and it pays pretty good. Test the market, look for opportunities, revamp your resume, peruse job boards. Just get out there and search. Take your career into your own hands. Your work shouldn’t be something you tolerate. It should be something that drives you to become the person you should be, to give everything you can.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Improve Your Speech
d)Improve Your Speech
Most people do not know how to speak in society. It is big lost for your social scale. Today i am going to suggest few exercises for developing your speech ability.
•“Tell Me” Game: This game is for two people. So you need partner before begining. There are two roles in the game: One is listener and the other one is speaker. Listener is going to record all speech problem. And the speaker is going to speak two minutes. Here are few topics. Do not spend your time for thinking subject:
1.Your favourite hobby and why it’s your favourite.
2.What you would do if you won five million dollars on the lottery?
3.If you had unlimited resources, what would you do to improve your business?
4.What do you like best about what you do? Why?
5.Which of the five senses is most important? Why?
6.What skill or talent would you most like to have? Why?
7.Why is the current federal government doing such a bad job?
8.What should your town do to create a better climate for business?
9.What are the best places to eat in your town or city? Why?
10.What are the best things to do to relax? Why?
•“How tos” Game: You need partner for this game, too. Your partner’s task is to comprehend what you’re saying and give you feedback about your speech pace. As the speaker, your task is to tell him or her how to do something in five steps. In this way you are going to learn focuses on speaking at the optimum pace for making your message understood. And for your good, here are few examples for “how tos” game:
1.How to perfectly boil an egg?
2.How to plant a tree?
3.How to send an email?
4.How to handle a customer complaint?
5.How to send a fax?
6.How to evaluate an employee?
7.How to replace a printer cartridge?
8.How to impress a client?
9.How to give a good speech?
10.How to make the perfect cup of coffee or tea?
In the end of the game ask your partner to repeat five steps that you speech up. Did he or she get all of them? If not, why? Did you speak too quickly or too slowly or was there some other speech problem that interfered with communication?
You can do this exercise as many times as you like.
•Score Your Speech Skills: After your speech exercises score your skills. If you are not satisfied with your scores do your exercises again. Here are table:
Enunciation: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Buzzwords: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Fillers: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Acronyms: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Expression: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Active Listening: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Pace: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Slang: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Most people do not know how to speak in society. It is big lost for your social scale. Today i am going to suggest few exercises for developing your speech ability.
•“Tell Me” Game: This game is for two people. So you need partner before begining. There are two roles in the game: One is listener and the other one is speaker. Listener is going to record all speech problem. And the speaker is going to speak two minutes. Here are few topics. Do not spend your time for thinking subject:
1.Your favourite hobby and why it’s your favourite.
2.What you would do if you won five million dollars on the lottery?
3.If you had unlimited resources, what would you do to improve your business?
4.What do you like best about what you do? Why?
5.Which of the five senses is most important? Why?
6.What skill or talent would you most like to have? Why?
7.Why is the current federal government doing such a bad job?
8.What should your town do to create a better climate for business?
9.What are the best places to eat in your town or city? Why?
10.What are the best things to do to relax? Why?
•“How tos” Game: You need partner for this game, too. Your partner’s task is to comprehend what you’re saying and give you feedback about your speech pace. As the speaker, your task is to tell him or her how to do something in five steps. In this way you are going to learn focuses on speaking at the optimum pace for making your message understood. And for your good, here are few examples for “how tos” game:
1.How to perfectly boil an egg?
2.How to plant a tree?
3.How to send an email?
4.How to handle a customer complaint?
5.How to send a fax?
6.How to evaluate an employee?
7.How to replace a printer cartridge?
8.How to impress a client?
9.How to give a good speech?
10.How to make the perfect cup of coffee or tea?
In the end of the game ask your partner to repeat five steps that you speech up. Did he or she get all of them? If not, why? Did you speak too quickly or too slowly or was there some other speech problem that interfered with communication?
You can do this exercise as many times as you like.
•Score Your Speech Skills: After your speech exercises score your skills. If you are not satisfied with your scores do your exercises again. Here are table:
Enunciation: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Buzzwords: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Fillers: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Acronyms: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Expression: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Active Listening: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Pace: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Lack of Slang: 1 – 2 – 3 – 4 - 5
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Improving Your Willpower
c)Improving Your Willpower:
Being successful is mostly about gaining control over external world. But it's difficult to do that until you've got control over the internal world of yourself.
But how can people gain control over internal world. Most important thing is self-control skill. Self-controll skill is like other skills. If you practice, it developes like tennis, or football. Here ara few examples to improve you willpower.
•Drop a Bad Habit, Small or Big: Few years ago i was smoking cigarettes. It affected my health so badly. And i deceided to quit smoking cigarettes. At first it is too hard to quit smoking but now i am healhty and so happy about this decision.This is an example of Drop a Bad Habit, Small or Big. Othe examples include giving up snack after midnight or drop alcohol. Drop something is great self-discipline exercise.
•Try to Learn Something That Boring But Useful: Most people keep away from boring things although they are useful. Reading books that includes science, studying lesson, listening classic music etc. Skills like grammar, punctuation, financial literacy, technical skills. At least one skill can be improved by you. Go to proximate library and pick book on the topic you choose and read it as fast as you can.
•Do Something You Should Do Everyday: Perhaps for you it's regular exercise, household chores, or getting up earlier, studying lesson, ironing clothes. For these activities set time everyday. And make rule, for everyday you miss you activity, you will doubled your activity yesterday.In this way both you can improve your self-dicipline and your skill about your choosen activity.
•Set Yourself an Achievable, But Difficult Goal with a Date for Reaching It:
Build yourself a willpower game around a particular goal. Perhaps it could be giving up smoking, losing a certain amount of weight, or reading a particular number of books. Organized events such as fun-runs are also good. Make sure it's something that's reachable with a high level of certainty (such as quitting smoking) as long as your will holds. In other words, no external events other than your own self-discipline should be able to have a major impact.Developed a single-minded focus on achieving that goal by the set date. Don't let yourself pass the day without reaching it.
•Do Everything Yourself: Most people in life have responsibility such as paying the bills, emptying the dishwasher, or starting a college assignment. You know that you have to do it but, you always wait for the last day. Don’t do that for your good. Do your work from begining to end. Don't allow yourself to wait for even five minutes before getting started.
Being successful is mostly about gaining control over external world. But it's difficult to do that until you've got control over the internal world of yourself.
But how can people gain control over internal world. Most important thing is self-control skill. Self-controll skill is like other skills. If you practice, it developes like tennis, or football. Here ara few examples to improve you willpower.
•Drop a Bad Habit, Small or Big: Few years ago i was smoking cigarettes. It affected my health so badly. And i deceided to quit smoking cigarettes. At first it is too hard to quit smoking but now i am healhty and so happy about this decision.This is an example of Drop a Bad Habit, Small or Big. Othe examples include giving up snack after midnight or drop alcohol. Drop something is great self-discipline exercise.
•Try to Learn Something That Boring But Useful: Most people keep away from boring things although they are useful. Reading books that includes science, studying lesson, listening classic music etc. Skills like grammar, punctuation, financial literacy, technical skills. At least one skill can be improved by you. Go to proximate library and pick book on the topic you choose and read it as fast as you can.
•Do Something You Should Do Everyday: Perhaps for you it's regular exercise, household chores, or getting up earlier, studying lesson, ironing clothes. For these activities set time everyday. And make rule, for everyday you miss you activity, you will doubled your activity yesterday.In this way both you can improve your self-dicipline and your skill about your choosen activity.
•Set Yourself an Achievable, But Difficult Goal with a Date for Reaching It:
Build yourself a willpower game around a particular goal. Perhaps it could be giving up smoking, losing a certain amount of weight, or reading a particular number of books. Organized events such as fun-runs are also good. Make sure it's something that's reachable with a high level of certainty (such as quitting smoking) as long as your will holds. In other words, no external events other than your own self-discipline should be able to have a major impact.Developed a single-minded focus on achieving that goal by the set date. Don't let yourself pass the day without reaching it.
•Do Everything Yourself: Most people in life have responsibility such as paying the bills, emptying the dishwasher, or starting a college assignment. You know that you have to do it but, you always wait for the last day. Don’t do that for your good. Do your work from begining to end. Don't allow yourself to wait for even five minutes before getting started.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Invaluable Life Lessons from Bon Jovi (That Don’t Involve Living on a Prayer)
Invaluable Life Lessons from Bon Jovi (That Don’t Involve Living on a Prayer)
This article is contributed by Alex Shalman, a freelance writer with degrees in Psychology (BA) and Biomedical Science (MS). Alex writes passionately and extensively about Personal Development at AlexShalman.com while making his way through further studies.
Jon Bon Jovi is a legendary rock star from next-town-over-from-me New Jersey. At the same time he’s a songwriter, actor and accomplished entrepreneur. To put some frosting on the cake, Jon went from sweeping floors at a recording studio to selling over 120 million records world-wide.
Some people call it luck, some people call it talent, but I know for a fact that it is Jon’s out look on life that brought him every ounce of success that came his way. The beauty of life is that it is within all of us to adopt a paradigm that will bring us more happiness and success than we could ever imagine.
1. “Success is falling nine times and getting up ten.”
One thing that I think we can all agree upon is that when the going gets tough giving up is easy. Life is made as such that accomplishing easy goals is not nearly as satisfying as going through trials and tribulations acquire a well deserved prize.
That’s why for Jon it was important to trudge past all his failures and get back on his feet until he accomplished his goals. These trials came over and over again in his career and life, and I’m sure he has learned to look forward to the hard times because they are a sign of the rewards to come.
2. “Nothing is as important as passion. No matter what you want to do with your life, be passionate.”
There’s something inheritantly boring about the 9-5, which is why many people speak badly of it. Not necessarily because it’s too hard, or because we might fail, but certainly because of the fact that boredom kills off who we are.
Passion, in any way shape or form, is what sparks the vitality within us. If we’re going to be spending the better part of our day working and earning a living (or making a fortune) we should at least be doing something that we love, so we’ll love our lives.
3. “Don’t get too comfortable with who you are at any given time - you may miss the opportunity to become who you want to be.”
The infamous comfort zone, oh killer of hopes and dreams. When our stomachs are full, and we’re totally satiated, we have no desire to go look for food. When we are comfortable enough with our living condition, we will most certainly not strive as hard to go after our dreams.
Going after your dreams, while exciting and fun, is designed to be hard. Laying around in the sack, stuffing ourselves with junk food, and numbing ourselves with alcohol is much easier, and is the trap that we must all avoid in order to experience a much grander journey to illustratious destinations.
4. “Miracles happen everyday, change your perception of what a miracle is and you’ll see them all around you.”
My biggest pet peeve would have to be complainers. I know this sounds like complaining, but it breaks my heart to see people blinded to the beauty of life by putting all their focus on the negativity. Life has good stuff and bad stuff, and whatever we think about expands.
Part of our test, the one where passing leads us to a more fruitful existence, is becoming conscious of ourselves and of our self-talk. By concentrating on the positives, and letting the negatives hang by the way-side we are effectively making our overall experience and perception of life more positive. This is all done without actually changing what the rest of the world is like.
5. “Each one of you has something no one else has, or has ever had: your fingerprints, your brain, your heart. Be an individual. Be unique. Stand out. Make noise. Make someone notice. That’s the power of individuals.”
On one hand, the one that looks at the grand scheme of things, we are nothing. Nothing compared to God and the vastness of the universe. On the other hand, we are just a part of a collective of people who are very much the same, and want similar things out of life.
That’s why we have to stop looking at those hands, and create a universe where we can function in the collective, but do so with style and flare so that we may stand out and leave a legacy.
6. “Map out your future - but do it in pencil. The road ahead is as long as you make it. Make it worth the trip.”
Jon’s life was not written in stone, it was flexible and took many unexpected twists and turns. This makes him just like us. His ability to be spontaneous and comprise made his life more exciting.
While there is great merit to being a stand for what you want to do, and have an unshakeable commitment to a cause, there are many paths that will lead to that goal, some more fun than others. It’s your life, take the scenic view.
7. “The only enemy is ignorance.”
This comes out of you from nowhere, just when you thought ignorance was bliss. The truth is that it’s not a sin to be ignorant, but it is a sin to remain ignorant. Being closed off, and uneducated will lead one to live a shallow life where nothing more than carnal pleasures exist. That’s what Hitler’s goal was for every person in the world, to be nothing more than an animal.
By being open minded to any possibility, reading, learning, and fully experiencing life from all angles we are allowing ourselves to grow. We are allowing ourselves to make a positive influence on our neighbors and on shaping and changing the world.
Go ahead and study the great, successful, and happy men of history. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel and there’s a good chance that anything you could come up with has already been thought of before. Use their knowledge to take your life experiences to the highest level.
This article is contributed by Alex Shalman, a freelance writer with degrees in Psychology (BA) and Biomedical Science (MS). Alex writes passionately and extensively about Personal Development at AlexShalman.com while making his way through further studies.
Jon Bon Jovi is a legendary rock star from next-town-over-from-me New Jersey. At the same time he’s a songwriter, actor and accomplished entrepreneur. To put some frosting on the cake, Jon went from sweeping floors at a recording studio to selling over 120 million records world-wide.
Some people call it luck, some people call it talent, but I know for a fact that it is Jon’s out look on life that brought him every ounce of success that came his way. The beauty of life is that it is within all of us to adopt a paradigm that will bring us more happiness and success than we could ever imagine.
1. “Success is falling nine times and getting up ten.”
One thing that I think we can all agree upon is that when the going gets tough giving up is easy. Life is made as such that accomplishing easy goals is not nearly as satisfying as going through trials and tribulations acquire a well deserved prize.
That’s why for Jon it was important to trudge past all his failures and get back on his feet until he accomplished his goals. These trials came over and over again in his career and life, and I’m sure he has learned to look forward to the hard times because they are a sign of the rewards to come.
2. “Nothing is as important as passion. No matter what you want to do with your life, be passionate.”
There’s something inheritantly boring about the 9-5, which is why many people speak badly of it. Not necessarily because it’s too hard, or because we might fail, but certainly because of the fact that boredom kills off who we are.
Passion, in any way shape or form, is what sparks the vitality within us. If we’re going to be spending the better part of our day working and earning a living (or making a fortune) we should at least be doing something that we love, so we’ll love our lives.
3. “Don’t get too comfortable with who you are at any given time - you may miss the opportunity to become who you want to be.”
The infamous comfort zone, oh killer of hopes and dreams. When our stomachs are full, and we’re totally satiated, we have no desire to go look for food. When we are comfortable enough with our living condition, we will most certainly not strive as hard to go after our dreams.
Going after your dreams, while exciting and fun, is designed to be hard. Laying around in the sack, stuffing ourselves with junk food, and numbing ourselves with alcohol is much easier, and is the trap that we must all avoid in order to experience a much grander journey to illustratious destinations.
4. “Miracles happen everyday, change your perception of what a miracle is and you’ll see them all around you.”
My biggest pet peeve would have to be complainers. I know this sounds like complaining, but it breaks my heart to see people blinded to the beauty of life by putting all their focus on the negativity. Life has good stuff and bad stuff, and whatever we think about expands.
Part of our test, the one where passing leads us to a more fruitful existence, is becoming conscious of ourselves and of our self-talk. By concentrating on the positives, and letting the negatives hang by the way-side we are effectively making our overall experience and perception of life more positive. This is all done without actually changing what the rest of the world is like.
5. “Each one of you has something no one else has, or has ever had: your fingerprints, your brain, your heart. Be an individual. Be unique. Stand out. Make noise. Make someone notice. That’s the power of individuals.”
On one hand, the one that looks at the grand scheme of things, we are nothing. Nothing compared to God and the vastness of the universe. On the other hand, we are just a part of a collective of people who are very much the same, and want similar things out of life.
That’s why we have to stop looking at those hands, and create a universe where we can function in the collective, but do so with style and flare so that we may stand out and leave a legacy.
6. “Map out your future - but do it in pencil. The road ahead is as long as you make it. Make it worth the trip.”
Jon’s life was not written in stone, it was flexible and took many unexpected twists and turns. This makes him just like us. His ability to be spontaneous and comprise made his life more exciting.
While there is great merit to being a stand for what you want to do, and have an unshakeable commitment to a cause, there are many paths that will lead to that goal, some more fun than others. It’s your life, take the scenic view.
7. “The only enemy is ignorance.”
This comes out of you from nowhere, just when you thought ignorance was bliss. The truth is that it’s not a sin to be ignorant, but it is a sin to remain ignorant. Being closed off, and uneducated will lead one to live a shallow life where nothing more than carnal pleasures exist. That’s what Hitler’s goal was for every person in the world, to be nothing more than an animal.
By being open minded to any possibility, reading, learning, and fully experiencing life from all angles we are allowing ourselves to grow. We are allowing ourselves to make a positive influence on our neighbors and on shaping and changing the world.
Go ahead and study the great, successful, and happy men of history. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel and there’s a good chance that anything you could come up with has already been thought of before. Use their knowledge to take your life experiences to the highest level.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Improving Your Mind
b)Improving Your Mind
In my first article i try to describe developing abilities and i mentioned that come with the birth. Now i am going to clarify intelligence that you have.
Your brain needs exercise. Because brain is muscle, too. When you use your brain more, it will be more efficient in solving.
Here are few ways to improve your brain yourself.
• Decrease Watching Tv: People love tv; after work or school. Because watching tv make people relax. But watching tv lot, make people too relax. Decrease it. Your eyes are sore and tired from being focused on the light box for so long. You don’t even have the energy to read a book. The problem is watching television does not use your brain full capacity. Instead of watching television, listen music or read a book. If you are with your friend or your family have conversation. It uses your brain a lot.
• Read Hard Books: People generally read popular books about fiction. But these books aren’t stimulating your brain enough. To improve your thinking, speaking or writing abilities, you have to read book that make you focus. For Example reading classic novels open new windows for thinking. Here are few kinds of books which increase your intelligence. They are advices of John Wesley.
1. “Science: Science is not restricted to scientific text books. It includes all books that increase our understanding of the natural world. This includes books on commerce and society, with the unifying theme being the use of evidence to explain events. The great value of these books comes, not from the theories they prove (which will likely be disproved in the future), but from the development of curiosity and the methods of learning. Scientific books teach us how to investigate our intuition and validate it with evidence.”
2. “Philosophy: If science teaches us to understand the outside world, philosophy teaches us to understand ourselves. Philosophy will increase your understanding of human needs and desires, knowledge that is essential for spreading ideas and predicting human behavior.”
3. “History: By learning about the past we are able to interpret our own times. We are able to recognize modern prejudices and the nature of humanity. Although history may not help us predict the future, it increases self understanding and awareness. It teaches us the timelessness of ideas and morality.”
4. “Poetry: Great poetry is the fusion of music and meaning. It is the medium of humanity’s most ancient masterpieces. Poetry sharpens language skills and develops eloquence. Meaning is only half of great language. The best authors write with a style that is both pleasurable and instructive. An appreciation of poetry is essential for reaching this degree of excellence.”
• Early to Bed, Early to Rise: Waking up early gives you more productive hours and maximizes your mental acuity all day.
In my first article i try to describe developing abilities and i mentioned that come with the birth. Now i am going to clarify intelligence that you have.
Your brain needs exercise. Because brain is muscle, too. When you use your brain more, it will be more efficient in solving.
Here are few ways to improve your brain yourself.
• Decrease Watching Tv: People love tv; after work or school. Because watching tv make people relax. But watching tv lot, make people too relax. Decrease it. Your eyes are sore and tired from being focused on the light box for so long. You don’t even have the energy to read a book. The problem is watching television does not use your brain full capacity. Instead of watching television, listen music or read a book. If you are with your friend or your family have conversation. It uses your brain a lot.
• Read Hard Books: People generally read popular books about fiction. But these books aren’t stimulating your brain enough. To improve your thinking, speaking or writing abilities, you have to read book that make you focus. For Example reading classic novels open new windows for thinking. Here are few kinds of books which increase your intelligence. They are advices of John Wesley.
1. “Science: Science is not restricted to scientific text books. It includes all books that increase our understanding of the natural world. This includes books on commerce and society, with the unifying theme being the use of evidence to explain events. The great value of these books comes, not from the theories they prove (which will likely be disproved in the future), but from the development of curiosity and the methods of learning. Scientific books teach us how to investigate our intuition and validate it with evidence.”
2. “Philosophy: If science teaches us to understand the outside world, philosophy teaches us to understand ourselves. Philosophy will increase your understanding of human needs and desires, knowledge that is essential for spreading ideas and predicting human behavior.”
3. “History: By learning about the past we are able to interpret our own times. We are able to recognize modern prejudices and the nature of humanity. Although history may not help us predict the future, it increases self understanding and awareness. It teaches us the timelessness of ideas and morality.”
4. “Poetry: Great poetry is the fusion of music and meaning. It is the medium of humanity’s most ancient masterpieces. Poetry sharpens language skills and develops eloquence. Meaning is only half of great language. The best authors write with a style that is both pleasurable and instructive. An appreciation of poetry is essential for reaching this degree of excellence.”
• Early to Bed, Early to Rise: Waking up early gives you more productive hours and maximizes your mental acuity all day.
Improving Yourself
Improving Yourself
a) Developing abilities:
If you want to develop your abilities first of all, you have to answer these questions.
1) Is ability innate?
2) Can you improve your abilities that you can not have?
3) When will our abilities be improved?
4) What can be done to improve?
My answers:
1) Yes ability is innate. It comes with the genes. Experiments with the twins show the reality.
2) Yes you can improve but not in professionally way. For example you can learn how to play piano but you can not play piano in Royal Philarmony.
3) Born to death.
4) Fourth question is the key for the rest three question. You have to find your quality or endowment given to man by God; a preëminent and special talent or aptitude; power; faculty; as, the gift of wit; a gift for speaking. Then you are going to chose your goal. Scout Reed says “This one step – choosing a goal and sticking to it – changes everything.” This is absolutely true. But do not forget Mike Tyson, “Everyone has a plan - until they get punched in the face.” To chose your goal i think some tests may help you. Example: Try this test.
Next step you have to determine your main way, for example; to improve your English writing ability, you have to practice writing everyday. To improve your written and spoken English ability, you have to ...
Then you need self-confidence;
It can be done both physicaly and mentaly.
Physicaly,
• Dress Sharp: Clothes effect people directly. It changes feelings about yourself in goodway.
• Walk Faster: Peoples’ walk tell everything. Is it slow? tired? painful? Or is it energetic and purposeful? Walking fast make you important person.
And mentally,
• Sit in the front row: In schools, offices, and public assemblies around the world, people sit at the back of the room. Most people prefer that for their fear. By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over your fear.
• Speak up: By making an effort to speak up in public discussion, you are going to be more confident in your own thoughts.
The match point is believing yourself but not believe other peoples’ thoughts.
a) Developing abilities:
If you want to develop your abilities first of all, you have to answer these questions.
1) Is ability innate?
2) Can you improve your abilities that you can not have?
3) When will our abilities be improved?
4) What can be done to improve?
My answers:
1) Yes ability is innate. It comes with the genes. Experiments with the twins show the reality.
2) Yes you can improve but not in professionally way. For example you can learn how to play piano but you can not play piano in Royal Philarmony.
3) Born to death.
4) Fourth question is the key for the rest three question. You have to find your quality or endowment given to man by God; a preëminent and special talent or aptitude; power; faculty; as, the gift of wit; a gift for speaking. Then you are going to chose your goal. Scout Reed says “This one step – choosing a goal and sticking to it – changes everything.” This is absolutely true. But do not forget Mike Tyson, “Everyone has a plan - until they get punched in the face.” To chose your goal i think some tests may help you. Example: Try this test.
Next step you have to determine your main way, for example; to improve your English writing ability, you have to practice writing everyday. To improve your written and spoken English ability, you have to ...
Then you need self-confidence;
It can be done both physicaly and mentaly.
Physicaly,
• Dress Sharp: Clothes effect people directly. It changes feelings about yourself in goodway.
• Walk Faster: Peoples’ walk tell everything. Is it slow? tired? painful? Or is it energetic and purposeful? Walking fast make you important person.
And mentally,
• Sit in the front row: In schools, offices, and public assemblies around the world, people sit at the back of the room. Most people prefer that for their fear. By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over your fear.
• Speak up: By making an effort to speak up in public discussion, you are going to be more confident in your own thoughts.
The match point is believing yourself but not believe other peoples’ thoughts.
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